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dirtyboy (March 13th, 2004)
I suspect guys will differ in what they like. I think ultimately it's about communication. Most guys are so enormously grateful that a girl will go down on them at all, that we don't care too much about technique as long as it doesn't hurt lol. Personally speaking (if this helps), in an ideal world I like it slow and gentle, the girl's mouth close, soft and very wet around my cock, engulfing it, sliding up and down slowly like that, with teasing and lapping from the tongue, some gentle caressing of my balls with her hand (not too hard!), and when I'm close to orgasm, stroking with the hand, as well as the mouth sliding deliciously around. When I cum, I like to cum over the girl's lips and chin (and / or breasts), then being taken back in her mouth while still cumming, so that she swallows some too. Many girls make the mistake of rubbing the cock too fast and hard - I like it slow all the way to orgasm, though that might be just a personal thing.
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grnman (March 13th, 2004)
Hey Jaded I hope this will help you in your quest.
I am lucky because my wife loves to give me head and has goten very good at it.
My wife DBB wasn't very comfortable with givving head at first and it took me awhile to get them ona regular basis. So one thing I can tell you is not only should you give head for the mans enjoyment but you should also be able to enjoy it yourself.
Some of the things that my wife does is not only put my cock in her mouth but she will lick it and kiss it. She will even use her tounge while i am in her mouth wich drives me absolutly crazy.
As far as having your head grabed and forced down on a mans cock you need to let your man know that your still new at cock sucking and to have some patience and work with you.
The last bit of advice I can give you is to practice practice practice and if you need any I would be more than happy to help  .
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Arched_stem (March 13th, 2004)
Not a guy; but some thoughts from a girl who loves giving blowjobs; be with somone you trust; being gagged to the point of retching is so damn unsexy I can't discribe it; and a violent, or mean, or impatient partner is horrible.
Have your guy lay back; if need be tell him you're nervous, but excited, and can you just taste him etc. . .ask him to put his hands behind his head, and to tell you what feels good, and what feels better. Like a grownup fame of cold-warm-hot. Tie your hair back if it's long; One, it's more convenient. Two, he gets to watch, and how cool is that?
Lick, taste, see how deep you can take him comfortably. Try different speeds and depths, an listen to his reaction, verbal or sound he's making.
As soon as I realised how wonderfully powerful a position the person giving the blowjob is in, even if it's at the request or command of their partner, it became incredibly sexy, and quite enjoyable, if not damned addictive, from that point on.
Good luck, and have fun.
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dolcebikerbabe (March 13th, 2004)
Hope you don't mind some advice from an experienced woman. I believe giving head is an acquired taste, and giving good head takes a lot of practice. I didn't much enjoy it at first, but now it is something I practice on a regular basis and I have become rather talented at it.
Go slowly at first. Don't try to take the whole thing in all the way right off. I like to get warmed up with a lot of licking and kissing first. I think this builds the excitement for your male partner too. Then I begin sucking the head of the cock and using my hand around the base of the cock...still going slowly. Then I build up to going faster and deeper. Very important to keep your jaw and throat relaxed as you go deeper. When I need a break....I like to rub his cock on my face while jacking him off with my hand. Then when I catch my breath, I suck some more. I find listening to music really helps me get in the mood, it relaxes me, and inspires me...I vary my technique in time to the music. Also...regarding the dry mouth problem, it is easier if you can keep your mouth wet....drink some water beforehand, and let yourself salivate as much as possible during oral sex. Changing your technique as you go....like incorporating your tongue more can help.
Just relax and enjoy yourself....don't worry if you don't make him cum, some guys have a harder time cumming from oral sex, or may take a while to get comfortable with you. Hope this advice helps.
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dirtyboy (March 13th, 2004)
Yes, I'd agree with all of the above. There's certainly nothing sexier than getting a blowjob from a girl who's really, really enjoying it - it makes it a much more intimate, shared experience. One of my ex's found giving blowjobs a huge turn-on, and would masturbate whilst sucking me, my own orgasm triggering hers - not everyone is quite so into it, but any guy who insists on a blowjob regardless of whether you enjoy it or not definitely deserves to be dumped. |
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sexymagickdesires (March 13th, 2004)
not a guy, but I find having the guy lie down is the easiest for me. I have more of a chance to explore and if I get tired, then I can lick his balls or his inner thighs. When a man makes me gag by moving my head, it turns me off. I tend not to want to go down on my knees to give a guy head because it makes me gag. Lying on my back with a guy kneeling over me works great too, I can get them deeper in my throat which I hear is a turn on 
but for me, trust is the most important issue of all.
(thanks from the girls, the music idea is a great idea and drinking water before hand) |
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logical (March 14th, 2004)
Wish I could help! :-) I can only add that if a girl was honest with me that she isn't really experienced but really wants to take her time -- I would love every minute even if she happened to make a mistake or two. |
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grnman (March 14th, 2004)
BTW forgot to mention it but the wife and I love your angel pic.  |
jblaze (March 14th, 2004)
all the comments have been good so far, just remember to keep your mouth moist and warm. start out slow and gradually work your way up to faster. using your hand to stroke also helps. also try to look into the guy's eyes as you do it. and a big bonus which you seem willing to do is take the cum in your mouth or face, on your tits is good too.
Laura (March 14th, 2004)
I'm not a guy either, but since I get accolades for my blowjob technique, I thought I'd chime in with a couple of suggestions to add to the other fantastic ones here.
Enthusiasm is so key. Tell your man that you want him to watch you. Have him lie down and give him a pillow or two so he can prop his head up and see what you're doing. Look into his eyes while you take his cock and rub it on your moist lips and cheeks. Make an occasional happy sound while he's in your mouth. A simple "mmmm" works.
The wetter the better! Don't be afraid of making a mess. There should be spit everywhere! It should be running down your hands and maybe even making a little wet spot on the bed.
I use my hands a lot. Sometimes I use just one to stroke all the way from the base of the cock, following my mouth up to the top, while cradling his balls in the other hand. Sometimes I'll use both hands to (one underneath the other) to stroke, and sometimes I'll use mostly my fingertips of both hands to squeeze his cock in an up and down stroking motion. Get creative with your hands. Start off gently and increase the pressure gradually if he seems to enjoy that.
By all means, think about how incredibly sexy you must look to him, how good you're making him feel, and just have fun with it! Enjoy yourself and he'll enjoy himself.
Rob (March 14th, 2004)
On a tangent, today is Steak and BJ Day.
Dougy (March 14th, 2004)
Of note, experience men may also prefer colon stimulation ( a finger up the ass ). Its not really my personal cup of tea, but from guys who like it, its heaven. The BIGGEST thing IMO is that YOU enjoy giving head. No partner worth their snuff will be able to enjoy something their partner isnt enjoying.
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cheatingchef (March 16th, 2004)
I'd say you should come over here and practice until you get it right.
Really. I'm a good instrument to practice on
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